If your girls are immature, or greedy (please don’t take that wrong, please), then try to stick close to the same quality, not necessarily dollar amount. And, don’t tell them what you spent.

I have a very dear girlfriend that has has a sister and a sister-in-law, all three between 27 and 32 yrs old. They throw the most horrible tantrums if they find out that ones gift cost more than the others’. Who knows why. Huge competition. She has gone as far as to deny contact between her children and mother-in-law when she has found out that the woman spent more money on her other two grandchildren. The parents of the other two do not provide for their own, so grandma picks up the slack.

Only go the equal monetary route if the girls can’t handle it. And, if you are a savvy shopper, you know that you might get the $80 sweater for $20, then you spend a week trying to spend $60 more, which could end up looking like one got more stuff. Yikes.

Good luck with it, it can get ugly. Good luck!!!!